Conversing and connecting
I live in a relational bell curve.
Some days, I’m on one end, feeling out-going and annoyingly cheerful. And a few days each month, I’m on the other end, where I just want people — all people — to leave me alone.
Most days, I live in the middle. I want social contact and connection, but getting it always involves people, and people can be kinda scary.
If you’re in the same boat, here are some resources for us.
The two biggest things I can offer are these:
- It’s way more scary to think about talking to someone than it is to start.
- Everybody’s interesting. Seriously. The trick is tapping into their passion and then holding on for the ride.
7 strategies for introverts (by introverts) to ignite your social skills
As a slightly extroverted introvert (or maybe that’s a very introverted extravert… I’m never sure), these ideas helped me get past the weird little fears that stalk me in a room full of strangers.
How to not suck at socializing
An easy introduction for meeting people in any group setting, whether for business or pleasure. Very good foundational information to get your started.
Good, basic ideas. If you’re new (or nervous) about meeting people in a business networking situation, start here.
What’s your favorite tip for meeting and connecting with people?
